Dear Abby gives advice to a retired man who is getting tired of having to help all of his friends run errands in his free time.

I enjoy helping my friends, my partner and family members. I feel doing good deeds is important in my retirement. My hands are pretty full with getting my elderly dad to medical visits, and I also visit him three times a week.

One of these friends has implied I’m not a good friend if I don’t help them get to the doctor, sit with their dog, etc.

I enjoy helping my friends, my partner and family members. I feel doing good deeds is important in my retirement. I stay busy with getting my elderly dad to medical visits, and I also visit him three times a week.

One of them has implied I’m not a good friend if I don’t help them get to the doctor, sit with their dog, etc. She never seems to remember past good deeds and loves to start arguments