Every marriage is different as well as “couples goals”, so don’t be hard on yourself if your marriage doesn’t look like someone else’s. You never know what is going on behind closed doors and their marriage is not your own. Have goals with your spouse and look up to what kind of marriage you want to have now and in the future. Try your best for your partner every day. Being proactive in your marriage is what is going to make it feel easier, rather than setting yourselves up to fail by not active