I’m a naturally hopeful person, who optimistically plans the future. I actually used to plan Events and Weddings professionally, and oh my gosh did it fill up my cup. When it comes to fertility, I tell myself every day to “remember to take it one step at a time.” when I get too far ahead in my brain, I have to take a pause and remember where I’m at right now, because the reality is, I can’t over plan or overthink this to make it all work. Being hopeful is a good thing, but overplanning can be a